It may have been several years of you two being together and you feel that there is no spark left anymore in the marriage.
How many times it has been that you showed gratitude to your wife?
She may be pursuing her career and managing the house at the same time or dedicate all her time in keeping good care of you and family, but it may all seem like she is fulfilling her duty rather than performing it out of love for you and your family.
When things are taken for granted and things happen just because they are supposed to happen, that's when you know that the relationship is full of duties and responsibilities, and not love and gratitude.
So, take some time out for the love of your life this “Wife Appreciation Day” and let her know how important she is to you.
Want some tips and ideas on how to show your love, affection, and gratitude towards your partner? We can help you with that. Here are some ways in which you can tell your partner how much you love and appreciate her:
Say it out loud
The classic way of showing gratitude is to convey it in words to the other person. Some simple appreciative words on her Work Productivity, how she handled pressure on a hectic day, or maybe the days when she tried making a new meal at the dinner, will make her day. While subtle signs of care can be missed if the other person is worked up, the appreciative words are hard to miss and will boost the confidence of your partner in handling any situation.
Hence, the sure-shot way of showing a person that you care for him/her and appreciate all the effort she puts in the relationship is by telling her straight away.
You will be in awe of her reactions when she hears you appreciate her.
Surprise her with little acts of love
Appreciating your wife does not have to be a grand gesture. Even small acts of love here and there will go a long way in showing your loved one that you appreciate her and care for her.
Small acts such as carrying the load of the grocery when returning home, or giving her water when she returns home after a long hard day at work will make her see how much you care and appreciate her for her efforts.
It is regardless to say that these things go a long way in establishing a happy and strong relationship for years to come.
Distribute duties among yourselves
No matter how much or how less the household chore looks from the outside, it is always great when you divide the chores among both. It is the most popular opinion that partners fight over petty issues and take the other person’s hard work for granted. People tend to think that one is easier than the other. However, it is far from the truth.
Everyone thinks that the grass is greener on the other side, and it cannot be more true in the family, or relationships.
Make sure that you divide the tasks of kids, grocery shopping, cleaning, and various other stuff among you and your wife so you can take some load of the household chore off from her. In return, your wife may surprise you with more care and understanding.
Make her feel special with “Durfi”
After all the time dedicated to managing work and keep up with the expectations of family and partner, it is only natural to get tired and stressed. One way you can make her feel a little light is by providing her comfort. And you know what is the synonym of comfort, yes, its Durfi.
Most of the women suffer from lower back pain, either because of a stressful day or a prolonged health condition. For this, Durfi takes care of her back pain and provides her a comfortable and cozy sleep throughout the night. So, cater to all her pains and discomfort of the day when she sleeps, gift her a “Durfi”.
Spark that romance
Being supportive and taking care of the family and your wife is great. But, keeping that spark alive is a major aspect of a fulfilling relationship with your partner.
When its been years and you two are used to seeing each other every day, it is an unlikely scenario where you two see each other with the same sparked romance as it was before. Keeping a fresh perspective while performing daily chores is difficult.
Hence, keeping a fresh perspective can be maintained by dedicating an activity once in a while. To maintain the spark, doing things that lets you off guard with the pressure of being productive every day or taking care of the children is important. For example, setting a date night once in a while, going for an outdoor sport or activity together, etc.
I hope by now you know that being appreciative of your wife doesn’t have to be an event in itself. Although we have a day that reminds us to thank and appreciate our wife for all the things she handles on her own, know that appreciation works over a period of time that will make your bond stronger than concrete with her.
P.S.: If you’re the wife, you can use these ideas to show appreciation to your husband as well.
Go ahead, plan a date and make your wife special this Wife Appreciation Day!